Thursday, August 27, 2026

Peach Cobbler, Squalor & Sons

The wide variety of species infesting the bakery is innumerable, but alas, even more food is spoiled by the humans.  Each workday begins by me grappling with an overflowing trash, swirling with flies, recklessly stuffed and blithely ignored by teenage employees and managers alike.  Both sinks are buried by crusty pans, greasy silicon muffin tins, and plastic containers still holding globs of mayonnaise and handfuls of pasta that were too...fatiguing, I guess?...to have emptied, which then proceed to clog the drains, which then begets the next round of "Not It!" as everyone continues to use the sink, filling it to the brim with swampy dill-scented bacteria-water.

Back at the prep table, I sort through necrotic raspberries, wipe off lids evidently cursed to eternal stickiness, hold my breath to search the mold-ridden fridge, and am spiritually deadened, again, to find raw chicken on a shelf high above all the pastries.  

Like the man throwing starfish back into the sea despite the futility of saving them all, I try to at least gesture towards actual sanitation.  Some people fear civilization will be done in by nuclear war, or a supervirus, or the apocalypse; I believe the tragedy of the commons will eventually utterly erode humanity.  So grinds on the summer of cutting melon for minimum wage.


Fortunately, the contrast between work and home life could not be starker.  We've had so many fun guests -- thank you for visiting, fabulous Carissa from Antarctica, by way of Greenland!


And JF's friends going back to medical school, who also love talking literature 




Sunday, August 9, 2026

Monsieur et Madame

We got married!  It was a wonderful weekend with many lovely friends and family all managing to speak bits of French and English together.  I bought nearly ten pounds of cheese; I bought way too many baguettes, but most of the rest of the food was spot on.  But even better than nailing the meal prep, we were filled with joy from everyone's support and enthusiasm.

Two of our neighbors very kindly lent their houses, so our families and friends from afar got to hang out for a few days with the easiest of logistics.  This also afforded me the fridge space to shuffle around all the watermelons and beer and wine and pans of moussaka and carrot cake and more for three big meals.  Don't worry, I didn't have to cook after the ceremony -- we had a rather nice lunch at a restaurant in our village with fancy little bites of dazzlingly garnished delicacies between courses, and a bold, successful savory cherry glaze on sea bass.

How I am lucky enough to have stumbled across such a delightful person to share life with is impossible to understand.  One day while hiking, fairly early on in our relationship, I asked more from general curiosity than in reference to myself, "Would you ever get married again?"  Jean-François thought a few moments, broke into a grin and he replied with a chuckle, "Sure! Why not?"  His warmth, his openness and optimism are like a magnetic field, whose force silently pull me in his direction.  



we kept it classy and did not smash cake in each other's faces

mom and me savoring our strawberry tarts


 JF's brothers and their wives serenaded us before dinner